About

Quick overview: I am a black, queer, single woman in her early 30s on the journey to motherhood. I am trying to become a single mom by choice.

I started this blog after I realized that, after lots of searching, there weren’t a lot of folks like me represented in the TTC or single mom by choice blogospheres (namely black/queer/single). So, I thought I’d add my two cents. That, and I also thought writing about the process would be helpful to me as I’m going through it.

I learned recently that I have mild endometriosis, PCOS, and adenomyosis (this last diagnosis being a bit difficult to digest). Needless to say, this may be an…interesting journey, to say the least. But I’m maintaining a positive outlook moving forward and will just see what comes.

So, I just thought I’d share my experience given all these things. Maybe it will be of use to someone out there going through the process.